Everyday I’m learning more about what a centered set church might look and feel like. I keep on running into quotes from The Shaping of Things to Come: Innovation and Mission for the 21 Century Church by Michael Frost. So that is now on the top of my “tobuy” list.
here are a few quotations:
It is important here to distinguish betwen centered sets and bounded sets, for that goes to the heart of the two modes of church we’ve been discussing. The attractional church is a bounded set. That is, it is a set of people clearly marked off from those who do not belong to it. Churches thus mark themselves in a variety of ways. Having a church membership roll is an obvious one. This mechanism determins who’s in and who’s out.
The missional-incarnational church, though, is a centered set. This means that rather than drawing a border to determine who belongs and who doesn’t, a centered set is defined by its core values and people are not seen as in or out, but as closer or further away from the center. In that sense, everyone is in and no one is out. Though some people are close to the center and others far from it, everyone is potentially part of the community in its broadest sense.
…If we return to the metaphor of the net, we might see a group of very committed Christian people befriending a number of not-yet-Christians in a variety of settings. Some will know each other, others will not, but the network of friendships will intersect at a variety of levels and degrees. Some of these not-yet-Christians will be close to identifying themselves as Christian, and others will not want to at all. But it’s in the committment to strengthening these bonds that the missional-incarnational mode functions best….
For us, the center should be Jesus Himself. The gospel is the central imperative for Christian mission. Since the core of a centered set is Christ, a church should be concerned with fostering increasing closeness to Jesus in the lives of all involved. We believe that a centered-set church must have a very clear set of beliefs, rooted in Christ and His teaching. This belief system must be non-negotiable and strongly held by the community closest to its center. A centered-set church is not concerned with artificial boundaries that bounded-set churches have traditionally added. In bounded-set churches all sorts of criteria are determined for the acceptance or rejection of prospective members (smoking, drinking alcohol, living together outside of marriage, differing views on Christ’s return). In a centered-set church it is recognized that we are all sinners, all struggling to be the best people we can be. But we also believe that the closer one gets to the center (Christ), the more Christlike one’s behavior should become. Therefore core members of the church will exhibit the features of Christ’s radical lifestyle (love, generosity, healing, hospitality, forgiveness, mercy, peace, and more), and those who have just begun the journey toward Christ (and whose lives may not exhibit such traits) are still seen as “belonging.” No one is considered unworthy of belonging because they happen to be addicted to tobacco, or because they’re not married to their live-in partner.
Belonging is a key value. The growth toward the center of the set is tha same as the process of discipleship.
Let’s face it, there are many paid-up members of respectable churches who might not “live in sin,” but whose lives are marked by greed or gluttony. The bounded-set church has determined a socially acceptable standard by which to exclude certain peoples. The centered-set church will see everyone as equally fallen. It will accept all people but will make Christlikeness a key community goal…